tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7905515.post3297271982071962649..comments2024-03-14T11:09:32.759-05:00Comments on Falkenblog: Weekly RoundupEric Falkensteinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07243687157322033496noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7905515.post-38095229831353678122013-04-26T15:42:08.011-05:002013-04-26T15:42:08.011-05:00I don't recall where I read it, but the observ...I don't recall where I read it, but the observation that "envy is a good 'gateway sin'" seems to acquire more significance the older I get and the more I see of human behavior. Leaving questions of sin and evil aside, I suspect it's responsible for more actions - and more irrationality - than is commonly acknowledged. Terryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04081423928864389800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7905515.post-36560566495952728742013-04-25T22:41:44.746-05:002013-04-25T22:41:44.746-05:00Less than twice a week is a violation of the Genev...Less than twice a week is a violation of the Geneva Conventions as far as I’m concerned but I admit that sometimes I have to make due with a rolling, semi-weekly average instead of a semi-weekly minimum.<br /><br />I’m convinced that envy is a big deal and a huge driver of human behavior but perhaps the general decline of standards that now seems to be endemic in our culture feeds and worsens relative status anxieties. Isn’t it harder to define where you are in life when many, long established landmarks are crumbling or gone? Wouldn’t that cause people to measure themselves more against other people instead?<br /><br />High personal standards and the ability to recognize high absolute quality are generally noble things I believe and not so easy to shake. Once you are aware of the existence of something of superior design/quality/beauty/craftsmanship that is both of real value to you and within your means it’s hard to be very satisfied with the skinniest girl at fat camp. Once you are aware that better things are within your grasp (or close enough to be irritating) you can’t really un-learn those things nor should you want to regardless of what your immediate peers have for themselves. And *sigh* both a blessing and a curse, having impeccable taste certainly limits the amount of happiness that one can derive from merely being perceived as occupying a position of higher relative status but by the same token it severely limits the amount of condescension that can be inflicted on you by a person sitting on an ugly sofa.<br /><br />Maybe a good strategy for squeezing maximum happiness from the relative status game is to keep yourself in charge of defining exactly who your peer group is. For instance, don’t worry about driving the least expensive car on the block if you can consider yourself a member of the top tier of a larger group of people who own well-restored, vintage cars.<br /><br />Also, it’s hard to believe that the person who actively joins clubs, activities and organizations –even if he is a bottom half performer in each of those peer groups- isn’t more likely to be happier than the person who always seeks to be the biggest fish in small ponds. There are always many other moving parts of course and even though I think I’d rather be at the bottom of my class at MIT than the top of my class at ‘Ole Miss I can certainly see how the later situation (especially in the dating dept.) might beget greater happiness at least in the near term.<br />Mercurynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7905515.post-19521540284140156662013-04-24T20:56:13.738-05:002013-04-24T20:56:13.738-05:00Falk,
Just admit you like to enlighten the rest of...Falk,<br />Just admit you like to enlighten the rest of us who are more motivated by envy and thereby sustain your thesis. Or even if you don't like it, then do it for altruistic purposes. Whatever you do, don't be selfish (if it means not posting). Come on man!!!!!:PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7905515.post-76041276302120511332013-04-23T19:36:40.238-05:002013-04-23T19:36:40.238-05:00Well, so much for your retirement from blogging!
...Well, so much for your retirement from blogging!<br /><br />Not that I mind! I have enjoyed reading your postings, and I have found the links to other articles and discussions to be very interesting. I can understand your ambivalence about writing here regularly, but I do hope you find time - if only now and again - to put up some brief missives like this one.<br /><br />I really enjoyed your list of quotations, too. I thought I was the only person who did that sort of thing!Terryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04081423928864389800noreply@blogger.com